Tuesday, 25 March 2014

Transcripts: Sunday Lunch Project 16/03/14 Question 2


Question Two: 
Education, is there a more natural form, a different way of doing things that is scalable and practical?
Female 3: Education, is there a more natural form, a different way of doing things that is scalable and practical?

Male 1: That was me, that was my question and it actually connects to that last thing I said about do we value people for the fact that they exist or for what they achieve? Largely I think the question that school is asking, when you enter school that under the banner is what can you achieve? Not how can you live in society well or how do we live together? Which for me seem to be much more interesting or perhaps useful questions in terms of the issues that global society seems to be dealing with within the UK? Whereas the approach of what can you achieve seems to me to deal with the “I” of going what can you achieve?  That you’re only valuable if you do achieve something…

Female 1: The productivity…

Male 1: Yes, the senses of productivity, if you can get the exam results then suddenly you’re valuable to society if you don’t get the results the where is your value? The question around education is, in terms of what are the alternatives?  How can the alternatives at all be practical and scalable?  Which might be too big of a question to even begin with.

Female 1: I think, because I come from a family of teachers, I’m the only non-teacher.  I’m a facilitator, I’m a director…

I certainly feel that one of the things I struggle with is, at school, I was an achiever, I got all the grades and I did all that extra-curricular crap.  Then I was like, and what? Because I felt like all that kind of entitled me to something or that that gave me value.  Then once you’re grown up it kind of doesn’t matter you know the reason, there isn’t a reward.  I’m really interested; we saw a post the other day for a self-directed learning school and it really, really interested me because actually that was one of the things that I found frustrating at school was that I don’t want to learn about this shit, I want to learn about how to make a rocket ship.  Don’t talk to me about volcanoes, I’m bored of that, I know that.  I read it in a book last week.  I don’t have a point really, I’m just telling you.

Male 1: No, no, that makes sense.

Female 2: I think the, “what can you achieve” question would be more helpful if it was directed differently because at the moment achievement is measured against external measures of success and other people.  If it was directed about you and what is achievement for you, in recognizing that different people have different measures of achievement, then I think that would be more helpful. 

Female 1: What are all the possibilities that you could be and which one do you want to go for?

Male 2: That goes back to my first question really, doesn’t it?

Meaning.

Female 3: Both my children are at school, in a state primary just off the Walworth Road. I would say that they really are learning about things beyond achievement and beyond what they want to do.  It’s a very inclusive school, it has a lot of children with special education needs and it’s very ethnically diverse.  I was thinking about it recently because someone I know is talking about homeschooling their child; secondary age. 

Female 1: Which I understand the imperative of if you’re driving for achievement, but if you’re driving for them to be a person of society….

Female 3: Exactly.

I think that is something that school achieved, kind of always has, but the focus hasn’t been on that.  I think Ofsted now, our school has had a recent Ofsted report. One of the things they look at, how it’s about the nurturing or the values of the school and I do think that school is how a lot of it all begins, doesn’t it? About how you socialize with people or what values you have? Whether you go with the crowd or – my daughter, just turned nine, a lot of the kids in her class have older brothers and sisters and she doesn’t, she has a younger brother.  

She said that they kind of talk older and more teenager.  She says that she doesn’t want to do that because it doesn’t feel like herself, but then she feels that if she doesn’t then no one will like her.  I was talking to her about that, but that of course is school isn’t that?  That’s the universal thing from school and that’s something that you get from that.

Male 2: No, I was thinking back to when I went to school and where I went, you know back in high school because we had very different school experiences.  I went to a country state school and my wife went to …

Female 1: I went to a private school.

Male 2: Sorry I outed you there…

Female 3: Yes, I know, it’s fine, fuck that I’m so sick of this shit; I went to private school because I won a scholarship. But then went to a state ‘A’ level college and I was really aware of the difference in effort and attitude in drive towards achievement or not. 

Male 2: There were two big differences, I think, to what we learned, I never really took on the talk of school, there was never really a focus on, the thing you were talking about, the difference between what you as an individual can achieve, what you’re there for, what can you do for society? The other thing it  never taught me to do or never pushed me to do was to try and be the best that I can be; to strive for excellence.  I think really is the big difference between us and as a consequence I amble around through my life and I’m doing alright now…

Female 1: You do very well, based on whatever measure you choose to use.

Male 2: You know, I’m happy. I have a job and all that kind of stuff.  I’m doing ok now, but it took me so long to get from there to here and I came out of school, went and did college because I had to and I almost failed my A levels, went on to a university and walked out after three weeks because I didn’t like it. Spent the year on the dole, spent four years on the job doing what I absolutely hated before I went back to the university to do something I really enjoyed. It’s taken off from there, but at the time I was never taught to think about anything other than; you get the grades and that’s all. I got the grades and didn’t learn stuff. I cruised through just because I could get the grades and there was no other pressure on me.  I just didn’t learn all that stuff and didn’t get pushed into doing all that stuff.

Male 1: That’s what I find really interesting is that.  Is it just then it doesn’t really matter what schooling you do, to some extent, because eventually you navigate it to a point where you either find your way or you don’t. I know that’s sort of throwing both those things up there at the same time, but….

Female 1: He’s a really clever guy. I wonder, I’m sure he’s had compatriots who were less clever struggled through more just to find their way, because he’s like the most stubborn person ever. If he wants it, he knows it and goes for it, but if you’re not that, if you don’t have that strength of will, can you self-direct in the same way?

Female 2: Although, I was just going to say, on the other hand, because I was similar and I coasted at school, because I could and at the university.  You never learn to apply yourself or work ethic, or how to study; that kind of thing since you don’t really need to. On the other hand I had friends at school who had to work a lot harder than me to get the grade.  They had to study and they had to put the hours in and, obviously you can’t judge other people’s lives, but I feel that potentially that serves better in work and the workforce afterwards…

Female 1: They have the habit.

Female 2: Yes, because they have that habit. They’ve applied themselves to their work, they take satisfaction in their work and achieving things, because when they’re at school they worked for it and there’s that sense of satisfaction when you achieve something when you’ve worked for it in a way that isn’t if you haven’t.  I think when I compare myself to those people, I feel they’re a lot more motivated than I am and work a lot harder. I don’t know, it just depends on the person…

Female 1: There was just a culture of achievement at the school I went to; there just wasn’t ever a question that you wouldn’t want to do your best.  It wasn’t that we were pushed per se; my parents were both teachers and I’m the only person to go to private school in my family, but they didn’t really push me.  They were like, “do what you want, like it’s your problem” and there’s something really interesting in that I did well academically; I met all those goals.  Then socially, I’m naturally quite shy, but I did this thing where I was like, no, I’m going to achieve the goal of not being shy.  There’s this thing that happens socially where I feel like I’m massively underdeveloped in some of those spheres.  I can totally fake it, because I’ve watched what it looks like and I pretend.  I find it really hard to make friends. 

Female 2: Yet, here you are opening your home to complete strangers.

Female 1: Yes, but that’s the thing, because I’m really good at faking confidence. I think I missed, for all that I got, the acheivement thing there was also something missing so I wonder about if this is something about how we frame education that is actually more about being a unit within a collective.  That sounds quite communist, but fuck it, why not?

Male 1: That’s the worry isn’t it? That when these alternative models get put up, they get slotted into an established ideology; when actually it can just be another idea within this system that we have right now or it can be another idea.  It doesn’t necessarily have to be just because there’s a kind of different approach to education, it doesn’t necessarily need to turn the state into a communist state or even deal in those terms; which is part of the issue.  Whenever an alternative is…

Female 2: Is reduced.

Male 1: …or anything is established it’s reduced to the, “oh what does that sound like or seem like?” Oh, that sounds like communism; that’s what it is. That’s the difficulty isn’t it?  The interesting thing I find about school is that it actually works for a lot of people. Like that whole school needs to be different thing, I feel like I’ve done alright. Even though, half the time at school it was horrific and I hated it and I thought it wasn’t relevant to me, but it’s also where I found my drama teacher, and my P.E teacher, and my music teacher, and they were figures who were massively inspirational to me. 

Female 1: It was where, we had an R.E teacher who said that homosexuals could be cured with counselling, and that was the first point where I was like, no; I am in opposition to you. 

Male 1: Yes.

Female 1: It totally allowed me, even though it wasn’t within those rules, I allowed me to define myself I guess.

Female 3: I think, for me, it’s about making sure that education, whether that’s through parents or home or whatever, it’s very wide.  I think what were all saying here is that you can get your meaning from education, but you have to be exposed to lots of different things and different options.  I had a similar to you; I grew up in Hong Kong. I was bright and I was put up a year above myself, above my age, when I was seven.

Female 1: They did that to me, but then kept me down. I was like, so I’m not actually as bright as you thought? They told me it was because I couldn’t put finger spaces. Anyway…

Female 3: I had special lessons about joined up writing because I missed that year. It was like a prep. I had parents who were very focused on academic achievement and I can understand why, because my parents had very different backgrounds to me. My father actually grew up in a children’s home; education was his way out.  He was born in a council flat in Hackney then he was in the children’s home and education was his way out.  He was very driven; he was the motivation that you thought of.  Where I was in the school with a lot of bright children where no one didn’t go to a university because that’s just what it was.  I didn’t have, let’s say motivation or drive, but I had my parents.  I had it coming from my parents and I did well academically and I got a law degree; I am a lawyer, but what is meaning for me is writing.  It’s something I’ve done as a child and it was my English teachers and my drama teachers.  I’m now doing an M.A in play writing and screen writing. Whenever I’ve had bad times, like cancer, the writing is what is my meaning.  It’s my way of expressing myself or coping; it’s kind of my coping strategy. 

Female 1: What was it, in whatever the context was before, that allows you to say that?  Does that make sense? There must be something that says, ok you can have a law degree and choose to be a lawyer or you can totally check out of that thing that you’ve been striving for and choose to do something else. There’s something quite special in that; not everybody has that.

Female 3: No, I think that came from me because it certainly didn’t come from my parents, because they’re all,” you’ve got to get a vocational degree and you can’t do English.  You’ve got to do a vocational degree.” I can see where they are coming from, because neither of them had an education they didn’t get to go to university.  They were very intent on us having an education. It came from me, I think.  The first time I kind of went back to writing was when I got cancer when I was 24 and I was a lawyer. I started writing I did some articles for magazines about ovarian cancer actually and I started building up the writing over the years.    Yes, it came from myself I guess. I think now, with Twitter and everything, I just think there are so many more options, I think.  You know of different…

Female 1: it seems like there are so many ways to look at other creeds.  Like, there are so many things that I know about now that I didn’t know about growing up in the very conservative Midlands.  That’s part of being in London but also just people going on about it on Twitter and you’re just like, ok well what’s that thing.

Male 1: The interesting thing about that is for the new generations, they’re exposed to that at a really young age. 

Female 2: Very young.

Male 1: How do they contextualize that? 

Female1: How do they pick a thing?

Male 1: How does education contextualize that for them? This is, I suppose, pushing the argument quite far in one direction. What if education is just preparing everybody to fulfill an economic role?

Female 1: That’s kind of what it is at the moment.

Male 1: Should it be?

Female 1: No it should be preparing you to choose what you care about and what is interesting to you and to pursue it and give you whatever tools you need.  That’s a massively ask, because what interest you could be microbiology, or it could be writing, or it could be carpentry, or it could be caring for children.

Male 2: Is that something we can only do now thought because we’ve got the luxury of having an economy where we’re able to do that? Say you took it 100 years ago.  Now You come out of school and have the luxury to be whatever you want to be.  What you need coming out of school is to be able to get a job…

Female 3: …and not die.

Male 2: Whereas now, you come out and decide to pursue your dream of whatever it is, you know you’re not going to starve; so you can do that.  So, we need an education system to reflect that.

Female 2: What about the kids who aren’t equipped to take advantage of that process? For whatever reason, there families don’t value education.  Okay, I didn’t take advantage of the opportunities my school offered me but I came from a home background where I was exposed to other ideas and thoughts.  I was taken to the theatre, we had books and we read, and I had parents that if I was failing science sat down with me and force tutored me. I didn’t enjoy it at the time, but it got me through school. 

Female 1: What if there is no one there helping you?

Female 3: It feels a lot of the time education is designed for people who are able to take advantage of their opportunity, where a lot of people aren’t. Any particular personality like, your father? Your father?

Male 1: that resilience of I’m in a really volatile environment and I need to get out.

Female 3: Understanding that you will be in that terrible moment for quite some time before you will get out. It’s that long term; knowing that you have to do things you don’t want to do.

Female 1: You can be given that, because I was totally given that.  I still spent seven years working in the city, fucking hating everybody I met and every second. I think there’s something about you can give people that agency and then they can give it up accidentally. I guess it’s a part of whatever the dream education thing is, if it’s about self-direction and the tools to be interested but it is also about the psychological ability to keep checking in and be like, “am I happy? Is this what I want?”

Female 3: and to know that you can change it.

Female 1: To actually have the right to change something to what you want. There’s a whole class thing in this because I feel like this is the difference between privileged and underprivileged kids, or average privileged kids, it’s feeling the right to ask for what you want. If you’ve never been given enough what you want is so far beyond…

Male 1: Yes.

Female 1: Why would you ever dream of asking for it?

Male 1: It’s a fascinating thing, because we have an awareness of our educations. Although they were all very different we were all able to use them at some point in a specific way.  I wonder if now, there is an opportunity for kids who might not have access or be able to deal with education the way that it is.  That if there is actually a way to create an alternative space that isn’t the excluded group of people from school group.  It’s just a different choice.  Rather than them having to have gone to that school to be excluded because they don’t deal with that sort of environment very well. Actually, you offer a different choice, but then I suppose the follow on is that be a choice that leads to exam results or wouldn’t be a choice that leads to a degree.

Female 1: Unquantifiable.                  

Male 1: Yes, which because that’s the way we are at the moment things have to be stamped.

Female 2: I don’t want this recorded if that’s okay?

(Recording Pauses)


(Recording resumes)


Male 1: Let’s say, for example, I ran young people’s programs for years.  I’d go into the Somali Community in Bristol and there were three kids who came to Bristol Old Vic from the Somali community in Bristol.  I was like, why aren’t more people coming and going out and doing workshops?  They seem to enjoy it.  Half the answer was it’s just not their bag; they’re just not interested.  The other half of the answer, which was more interesting, was well their parents don’t really like it.  They don’t really want those kids hanging out with these kids.  There were all these levels of barriers that just…

Female 1: It’s you don’t quite know what it is and you don’t quite trust it.  Which means you don’t quite trust the people, which means there…

Male 2: The question for me is if you have that does the state, or whoever, have a right to say no that’s wrong and we’re going to force your child to come to this…

Female 1: Like sex ed. is compulsory. 

Male 2:  Yes, but where do you do it?  Do you draw the line and say sex ed. is really important; we must have every child doing it? Theatre is that important or not?

Female 2: I think we know what this government thinks of theatre

Male 2: But where’s the line?

Female 1: I think that question should be like, expressive arts and you can pick whatever you want that’s in it but you’ve got to do something.  Like when you do your GSE choices or whatever.  You have to do a language, or you have to do a science, or you have to do Maths and English.  What if you had to do something that made you think like philosophy or you know something that made you think about the wider context of the world.  Philosophy or arts?

Male 1: There, it’s all the humanities area of subjects that generally do that anyway. With philosophy, English, or Arts; they are the ones that are undervalued. Certainly as the way the education system is being reframed now.  They are becoming undervalued.

Female 1: Well, they’re also the sort of things that allow people to challenge the system. 

Female 2: They’re truth tellers.

Male 1: Yes, yes. I don’t know.

Female 3:  I think there’s something more in the bacchelaureate system, something that’s wider.  A levels for me were so narrow, you know, choose three subjects.  I think something like you were saying where there’s something that you have to do something arts and I think that’s possibly a key.

Male 1: Yes, but they’re still only catering for those people who’ve gone through the education system to that point. 

Female 1:  And kind of know what you want because that’s the thing that differs between you and me is you don’t know what you want to do whereas there’s so many things that I want to do.  That’s the thing, bless you, but if I set you loose at 17 and were like, “pick anything”.

Male 2: The thing is you’ve narrowed it down more than I have, in a sense, but I still want to be the spaceman and the train diver and…

Female 1: Oh, so do I.

Male 2:  You’ve narrowed it down to a real focus on theatre and I detail and I haven’t really narrowed it down to any particular focus that I really want to do.  So, I’m ambling along and doing a job that’s ok, I just haven’t found my real focus yet.

Female 2: Can I ask something off topic from the questions?  Just interested, every person here has so far said they got an interest in theatre beyond just attending. I’ve studied theatre…

Female 1: He doesn’t really – its just that I work in theatre and he’s married to me

Male 2:  So that’s my interest.

Female 1:  I think that shared interest is because this is the first [Sunday Lunch Project}, and I Tweeted it so the only people that follow me on Twitter are interested in theatre or in people that rant about feminism!  That’s it.


Male 1: I do a bit of both of that.  I’ll rant about feminism, but I  know a bit about theatre. 

Female 1: Yes, only of the things I’m thinking about is flyering Brixton market and stuff, but it’s that same thing; if you’re not going to send your kids to the free class, or whatever, you’re probably also not going to come and do this. So it’s self-selecting.

Male 2: This is exactly the difficulty and we’re moving into a little bit of talk about diversity as well. I’m running a programing at the moment, where it’s completely free for anybody to arrive.  I’ve sent it directly to organizations and institutions who only work with ethnic minorities.  Chinese community center and three or four groups in Stratford who are only…but still the participant list for that group is still 20 year old white girls.

Male 2: And the majority of them… How do you manage that?  How do you deal with that?

Female 1:  In my job we have these two strands our organization wants participatory stream that is incredibly diverse and works really hard to try to get out to hard to reach young people.  They have programs with disabled kids, refugee kids, kids at risk of exclusion, and then they have like a youth arts program for 16 to 25 where jou can just rock up and it’s amazing; incredibly brilliant. Then I run the professional program and it is entirely different.  It isn’t through lack of looking for a broad diversity.  It isn’t through a lack of; it isn’t through any kind of discrimination, please God no.  At the moment I’m mentoring a lad whose from, who came through the youth arts stream and wants to make it as a professional playwright. And the thing is, I feel like I found one of the answers, but I asked him to do his five year plan.  And the first one on the list: “What do you want in five years?” said, I want to own a lucrative theatre company.  The thing I have to tell him is, I’m so sorry, that isn’t going to happen; even if you’re Cameron Macintosh.  You’re scale of earnings is nowhere near your scale of earnings of if you were just an average banker, or lawyer, or whatever.  He’s going to self-select out at the point of which he feels like he’s a lesser person if he can’t earn.

Male 2:  Can I just ask a question on that then?  In a sense, are you, I know what the theatre institute is like because I live with you and I…

Female 1: You pay the rent here.

Male 2: Are you actually discouraging him from really trying to change theatre to something that would actually be financially viable?  Are you saying here, encouraging him, “You’re never going to make money in theatre?” Or “Are you saying how can we make money in theatre?” then encouraging him to do that. I know what you’re saying. You are trying to let him down gently.

Female 1:  No, the conversation I’ll have; I don’t actually have to have a conversation with him, I can just give him this recording.  The conversation I’ll have with him is, look, you’re 24 now and it’s going to be ten years before anyone bets money on you in a commercial way.  Just because you haven’t got the skills; so for ten years it’s going to suck.  Then if you’re really fucking lucky, you will write Mamma Mia, or War Horse, or whatever. Then you will get three percent of the international gross profits on that. 

Male 2:  Isn’t that what we’ve been talking about in terms of school?  In terms of you get kids going into school, drive them into a steady career, and just get a job and live your life.  At the end of it when you’re 60 you might get retirement and pension and all that. Instead of saying to these kids why don’t you just go and dream and do, what you really want.  You’ll be saying, sorry, I’m going to be in so much shit after this…

Female 1: No, you’re not.

Male 2:  You’re stopping him from doing the big things.

Male 1: That’s an interesting thing though, because there is a responsibility as a mentor, or as a teacher, or as an education establishment…

Female 2: Not to throw them down a career that’s going to kill them.

Male 1: Exactly, and that’s the difficulty I think, which is a tension within education around that first question of: what can you achieve? What are you here for?  What you’re doing in society, because there is that.  If we take the pessimistic view of education you’re saying, “It’s just preparing people to fulfil the economic need.”  You get placed in the category you earn an amount, you pay a tax, and you keep society going in some way.  Or you could say it’s being responsible.  What do humans need? Basic, they need income, because the capitalist society that we live in means an income means you have to eat which means that the only way to get that income, well not the only way, but one of the better ways.  Is to say come and get educated in these things, because we know these things are the reliable things.  It’s such a catch 22.

Female 1: My mum and dad, they’re both teachers, but my dad is a potter.  They had a pottery business in our back garden for years.  They tell this story about going to see my second eldest sister’s teachers at her state comp up the road.  The only thing she was good at was art and the form teacher took them aside and said, “Look, the only thing she’s good at is art; she’s never going to make a career out of that.  You guys really need to be yelling at her to do something else”.  And they were like “That’s what we do, we are artists.”  It was like their heads exploded, they couldn’t understand that this person was saying this. The teacher couldn’t understand that there was a person out there who made a living in some way as a lecturer or teacher or whatever as well, but say 50 percent was as artists, in the way saying it’s impossible.  I feel we self-fulfil.

Male 1:  Exactly.  If you just go to school that said, yes you can be an artist and yes, this is how you do it and make money out of it maybe that was part of their education.

Female 1:  It would mean more people would want to consume art; which would make if more financially viable. 

Male 2:  I went to a school we didn’t say you can go off and do whatever you want and I’m incredibly angry about that because I’ve missed so much of opportunities early on.  Everything’s in my own destiny and all that stuff, but back then I didn’t know that.  I didn’t realize and I’m so angry about that.

Female 2: What would you be if you be different?

Male 2: I don’t know, I really don’t know.  I don’t know what I’d do, but I’d have the courage to know that I could. That’s the difference between you and me for example.  You went to a school where people encouraged you to do that and said if you really want to you can do it.  They didn’t say it will arrive, they said it will be difficult along the way, but if you really want to go and do it.  My school didn’t tell me that and it’s my own fault for listening to them in a sense, but that’s what they told me.

Female 3: I think that first of all there isn’t a thing as a stable career anymore.  I mean in today’s society.  Necessarily, I mean things like law for example is completely changing.

Female 1: I could see some sort of medical profession or engineer…

Female 3: Yes, what I mean is, I think there’s some but it’s narrowing down. I also think there’s something but I completely see your point.  There’s something about realism though.  You have to work at something and five years isn’t that long. It’s going to take a long time to build up a profitable company. 

Female 1:  If you were just a hunter/gatherer it would take you ten years to learn how to kill things easily.  I mean in the simplest way.

Female 3:  That’s something in whatever you have to do. If you want something you have to fucking work.  It’s not going to just come to you and you’re going to have to make sacrifices.  Whatever they be, you’re going to have to make sacrifices.  Even if down the road you end up being a doctor and you know you’re going to get a good amount of money, you make the sacrifice where you’re studying and studying and studying, giving up social life, and working long hours.  There’s always some sacrifice, but it had to be what works for you.  What you’re willing to balance out.

Female 3:  Well, there needs to be balance in the advice that’s given isn’t there?  Like, you want to be able to encourage people to pursue the things that they love; but do that in an eyes open kind of way.  So this is your passion, this is what you want to make happen, this is not very good at the moment, these are the sectors which you could study at the moment that are similar that might get you the job prospects. If this is your passion then here are some things that you can do and start doing now in order to sort of help make that more likely.

Male 1:  Absolutely, and what’s fascinating about that is like three of the most recent studies are 16 to 25 year olds; what do you want to be, what do you want out of life? Hardly any of them, I mean and I don’t know what areas, but about 22,000 young people asking them what they wanted and hardly any of them are saying fame. 

Female 1: That’s interesting, because that’s not what you’d expect.

Female 3: That’s not what you hear in the media.

Female 2: Someone should tell the Daily Mail.

Male 1: Exactly, because it’s not what you expect. Yes, someone should.  Then the other one was we want to do something that we love, that we can earn something from and that will also help society. I don’t know whether they went into a social enterprise school or what but these results, like when you look through the data it’s 16 to 25 year olds, but  like so many of them were saying no. Many of them were saying celebrity is an idiot’s game now; it’s empty, there’s no point.  Yes, we want to earn money and we want to earn a decent amount of money but we want to do that while we make society better.  I don’t know where these young people are but it sounds; because I’ve met a lot of kids I know who would answer like that but I didn’t think it was representative of the wider U.K.  Twenty two thousand kids may not be representative of the wider U.K…

Female 2:  It’s a lot.

Male 1:  It was an interesting; I got most of those data from RSA and from…AandM?

Female 1: Could you e-mail me those?

Male 1:  Yes, which was fascinating, I thought: we’d like to make money, but we’d also like to make the world a better place.

Female 3: Do we have to finish?

Female 1: Yes, go ahead finish because we’ve gone 40 minutes.

Female 3:  Just to finish off, I think it’s something schools are doing more now than say my generation.  It’s just the sense of social enterprise, just sort of eco-awareness and helping other people.  I see that in my children’s school; they certainly do projects like that.  They certainly think about the world, in a way that we, I, was never taught to.  That is a positive trait.

Female 1: Because my school was a convent; it was charitable, conservatively activist, strand to what we did.  It was like, bring your cans for the harvest festival and help people to cross the street.  It wasn’t campaigning for race or LBGT rights; for example. Yes, activism was totally there, in  quite a twee way. 

Male 2:  That’s the interesting thing about religion.  I’m not religious in any way at all, but it’s actually done some pretty good shit along the way.  As well as all the big disagreements, like on a local scale. There’s an interesting…

Female 1:  Well, maybe that’s why.  Maybe that’s why we’re a secular society now, because whoever is in charge it’s not in their interest to let us unify under any kind of ideology.  When Adam delved and Eve span who was then the gentleman?  You know that’s the start to a kind of active socialism.

Female 3:  Maybe that’s why we’re a secular society?

Female 1:  Ok, I’m pausing.

Female 2: You’re being a good chair.

Female 1:  Well I really need to go to the loo.  Would you clear plates and procure chocolate mousses from the fridge? Does anybody want anything else of anything that’s savory?

(The recording is interrupted by the sound of crockery clattering)

Male 1: What’s the NGO that you work for?

Female 2: I work for the Red Cross.  It’s just a desk job, policy stuff.  I’m not out delivering food to people flooded or anything like that.  It’s alright, it’s good. I haven’t been there long; just over a year.

Male 1: How long have you been in the U.K?

Female 2: Nearly ten years, so, yes a while. My dad is English and I was born over here so… The connection...

Female 3: Do you mind passing the water jug please?

Female 2: No, of course.

Male 1: Do you want a fresh glass?

Female 3: Yes, please. I’ll have a water glass.

Male 2: I’m not very good at hosting.

Female 3: No, it’s great.

Male 2: Anybody else wants more water?

Female 3: That would be lovely. Thank you.

Female 1: Anyone want the last of wine?

Male 2: Sure I’ll have a drop, I won’t say no.  It’s Sunday.

Female 3: Did you get quite a big response then?

Female 1: I got loads and loads and loads.  I’m trying to reset this [tmer] while I talk to you. Loads of women and loads of people who had part read it and then e-mailed me with absolutely not what I asked for.  The first day, all I’ve really done is tweet it so far, then I’ve just finished a really busy period at work. Now there’s proper work on it…

There was quite a big response based on three tweets but I was really interested in this narrow section of society. That’s probably the group of people who follows me.

I’ve done a little bit of leafleting for the young kids around work and stuff.  They were like, but why would I come and hang out with grownups?

Male 2: That’s what I think is crucial those diverse, intergenerational multi-social spaces. Whenever I’ve done any sort of work in anyway, whether it’s theatre or teaching related that’s always what’s offered the most interesting results, is those gaps of age, and heritage, and background, and color.

Female 1: Otherwise we’ll just spend an hour agreeing

Male 1: Exactly, or disagreeing about not very interesting points.

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